Our local aquarium has dolphins, and up until recently they
had a pretty cool dolphin show. You got to watch the dolphins perform some
really cool tricks and they educated you on some dolphin trivia. And lost in
amongst the myriad of interesting facts about dolphins, was the following.
A family member told me that that the same concept applied to bumble bees. It seems that when you take the wing size, body size, weight, etc in to account, they shouldn’t be able to fly. But they do fly. Quite well, actually. Don’t tell the bees. They might forget about their past successes and find themselves grounded.
I have the burning desire to post this on the entrance to
every building of education, make it the first sentence of every syllabus. Post
it on the wall of every office and remind everyone I know every day.
As a teacher of foreign language, one the most significant
barriers I fight is confidence. Sure, some students have more natural academic ability
than others. Some have better memories and some just focus with less effort. And then again, some just work harder. They
just accept the discomfort of hard work more gracefully. Yearn for the pride of
the accomplishment to come.
Years ago, I had the following conversation with a student.
On the first day of class.
Student: I’m not going to do well in your class.
Me: Really? Why?
Student: Because I was tested and I have learning disabilities.
I can’t memorize well. I won’t do well.
Me: I don’t believe you.
Student: (pissed off) You don’t believe I was tested?
Me: No, I believe you were tested. And I believe you about
the result. I just don’t believe that you won’t succeed. I just expect you to
work harder and ask more questions.
Student: (staring directly at me, challenging… then walking
away) Humph.
The ones who lack the confidence are, for me, the most
tragic of situations. I have been forced, on way too many occasions, to look
into the eyes of a student and know that they were not going to succeed if they
didn’t break past the barriers they placed in front of themselves. If they
didn’t void their heads of the limiting thoughts that had been instilled there
over time. I mean, nobody told the
dolphins they were swimming “too fast” or the bees that they shouldn’t be able
to fly.
I suppose this topic is bit of a soap box for me, being
someone who doesn’t like to be told what I can and cannot do. Not to imply that
I don’t have a healthy respect for authority, because I do. But I do expect to
be seen as an intelligent adult with good judgment and being informed that
something is out of my reach is by far the best way to help me achieve it.
Wanna dare me? Go ahead… I’ll prove you wrong.
So maybe these dolphins were in a hurry. A hurry to get the
food. A hurry to get a mate. Or simply a hurry to catch that really big wave.
So they pushed themselves. Good for them. I hope they achieved their goals. And
to you little bumble bees, you keep on flying. I believe in you.
To live without limits or to try and push them at the very least. A vey healthy way to live life.
ReplyDeleteVery well thought out post.